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My (30F) partner (34M) have been together for 5 years. For some context he was in prison for 2 1/2 of those years but he has been in and out of jail/prison for a long time so he’s very paranoid sometimes. We have lived together for 1 1/2 years and things have been very up and down but we have came a long way. We’re very very different. He is extremely avoidant and I can be very anxious during conflict. Anyways, yesterday we realized that on 3 separate occasions calls that were made to his number came through to my phone. I have absolutely no idea why. All of my settings are set to the proper settings to not allow this but I can’t be sure about his phone because idk if he’s throughly checked. Anyways, at first he was giving me a hard time and joking about me hacking his phone but I started to get annoyed because for 1. I was trying to figure it out and he just kept on saying shit. 2. If I even tried to talk about anything he would just make another joke… so I got a little irritated but I quickly let it go but at that point he was actually mad…. Now he hasn’t spoken to me since midday yesterday… the only thing he’s said to me today is that “we’re not cool” when I spoke to him and he ignored me more than once so I asked him”are you serious?” Then he made the statement about us not being cool… I worked all day and came home and he still has not spoken to me… it’s really upsetting to me because I don’t understand why he just assumes I did something even tho I’m telling him I didn’t. I even contacted t mobile and asked for advice on a subreddit about technology. I also throughly searched possible causes and solutions but like I said I can only guarantee that I checked my settings. Idk if he’s has but I shared with him what I learned. I’m starting to get kind of mad because I don’t understand why he won’t even consider that maybe I’m not lying??? Not to mention if I actually did this then that would make me some crazy diabolical liar and manipulator because one of those calls was from someone he knows and it caused a whole situation over this man calling me and claiming he didn’t and doesn’t know why it called my phone. Ofc we didn’t believe that cause wtf!? So to me it’s like, if you think I did this then I just let that other guy get pressed over something I know he didn’t do. Like wtf? I can’t help but then be hurt cause how could he think I’m that type of person? It’s so confusing. I understand why it may seem suspicious at first but to not even get the benefit of the doubt at all is really hurtful… Also, I was the one who informed him of all of these calls…im starting to feel hurt/mad because he’s acting like I don’t even exist and I didn’t even do this… Tldr: my bf thinks I hacked his phone and now he’s acting like I don’t exist and doesn’t seem to even consider that I could be telling the truth and I don’t know how to handle this or really how to feel about the insinuation that I would do this.
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